- Show gratitude: Always be sure to thank those who helped you. It takes only a few minutes to send an SMS or email or to make a quick call thanking them and showing that you respect them.
- Praise others' successes: When others succeed, mention their successes and celebrate the extra effort they have made.
- Ask others: Ask them questions about their views on specific matters, and keep your questions open, so they can talk about their views. Your questions express your interest in their ideas and want to know more about what matters to them, and they will appreciate it very much.
- Keep your promises, and do what you say: If you are planning a specific event, or arrange an appointment with someone, keep your appointment, this behavior shows that you respect the time of others and allocate part of your time to be with them.
- Help others: Help them if you see them needing help, even if you are not asked to do so. Volunteering to help clean up a place after a certain event is over, or to help your younger brother do his homework, and even help an elderly person cross the street shows a great deal of respect for these people.
- Estimate the abilities of others: everything that exceeds its turn turns against it !, providing assistance continuously and in everything that may reduce the respect of the other party, try to realize when one of them is able to do something himself and when he really needs a helping hand and act accordingly.
- Violate the opinions of others in an appropriate and appropriate way, by expressing your dissenting opinion in a civilized manner, instead of phrases such as: "This is stupidity" or "It is nonsense" you can say: "I respect your point of view, but I have a slightly different opinion." Don't make judgments about others, even if your first impression is bad.
- Try to understand why they behave this way and excuse them for their behavior. Communicate with others even if you do not like them, and be careful not to ignore them, especially if they are part of your work environment or study.
- You don't have to befriend them but try at least not to make them feel marginalized. A simple sentence like: "How are you doing today?" It may be enough and your feelings may change their direction in the long run.
- Do not interfere with what does not concern you: Stay away from other people's affairs that do not interest you and in which interference may create animosities between you and them.
- Take care of your own affairs and spend your time with what is useful, such as exercise or hobbies. And stay away from social media, which often leads to a fire of jealousy and hatred between people.
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