All individuals seeking to develop themselves and develop their capabilities, and self-confidence is the first motivation for the success of the process of self-development and building a strong personality. When the individual trusts himself and his capabilities, this is reflected in the view of others in him, and people depend on us to judge our apparent behavior, by translating the movement of hands and eyes To speak, people show whether your personality is strong or weak.
For example, if your voice is shivering, your movements are shaky, your muscles are sullen and your eyes are wide, then know that your personality is weak and that you are not sure of yourself.
Also, self-development and building a strong personality comes only through continuing with perseverance and effort in gaining the trust of others in us, and this does not mean that self-development is confirmed by others only, but you must be a beginning that you trust yourself and your capabilities, and strive to develop yourself and build your strong personality Independent.
The individual should work on assessing himself from time to time, identifying the positive points in his personality, working on developing them and understanding the negative points he has, and working hard to get rid of them, and there are many signs of weak and shaky personality, such as exaggeratedly praising others, or as a ratio Actions I did to other people, or embodied it in phrases such as: "If it were not for me I would not have been", or "This is not intelligence from me but rather from so-and-so ...". Likewise, there is a lot of inference with other people's words, or allowing someone to use some abusive words against your right, such as saying: stupid, or fat, etc.
Also showing some movement disorders such as constantly moving hands, hitting the table while talking, or raising eyebrows, are indications of a weak personality.
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God’s love makes life more beautiful “Thoughts on God’s Love for His Worshipers”
What does it mean to establish yourself?
A person has to be in constant movement and development, to help himself make decisions, and not to say: There is no time for a change in my life.
Self-confidence is one of the most important aspects of the personality that the individual must stand with and work to develop because a person who lacks confidence in himself will not be able to provide any achievement and his presence will be meaningless.
It is you who make the impossibility exist and make it surround you. If you decide, think, plan and do indeed, there will be no impossible.
We have to realize that each of us has his own self-perception about everything around him, and not necessarily agree with others on our own perception. The self-concept is acquired, it comes from the mother and father, then from school, friends and the media, and since it is acquired, we can change it. The self-concept is also dynamic in the sense that it can change and evolve but in its own sense.
Do not blame yourself but calculate it and learn from your mistakes, and try to develop the positive aspects of your personality, and correct the negative aspects, or get rid of them, and this is known as the self-ideal, and the self-ideal includes five basic pillars, namely:
Spiritual Part: To have a spiritual ideal, you know exactly what you want.
The healthy part: You know what you want, what your problem is, and you know your health.
The personal part: You know your psychological appreciation and you know how it is done.
The professional part: You know what field you will achieve success.
Physical part: You know where you want to get yourself. You have to stay away from three things: criticism, blame, and comparison, as they all feel negative energy and frustration.
It is not permissible to judge those around you with failure, strength or weakness through only the external appearance.
A person must accept himself as it is, and love himself as it is, and this is known as self-esteem, for self-esteem is your appreciation of yourself and your sense of contentment with it.
You have to realize that not accepting oneself leads one to two things:
When we set and implement a specific goal, this will increase our confidence in ourselves, whatever these goals, whether on a personal or professional level.
Accept responsibility, this makes you feel important, and defeat fear every time you see you and use the work to address your fear and gain more confidence.
Talk yourself positively, start your day with a smile and optimism, and talk to yourself. Speaking is vitamin building confidence.
Try to participate in discussions, and take care to educate yourself by reading in all areas, the more you engage in more discussions, the more you trust yourself.
For example, if your voice is shivering, your movements are shaky, your muscles are sullen and your eyes are wide, then know that your personality is weak and that you are not sure of yourself.
Also, self-development and building a strong personality comes only through continuing with perseverance and effort in gaining the trust of others in us, and this does not mean that self-development is confirmed by others only, but you must be a beginning that you trust yourself and your capabilities, and strive to develop yourself and build your strong personality Independent.
The individual should work on assessing himself from time to time, identifying the positive points in his personality, working on developing them and understanding the negative points he has, and working hard to get rid of them, and there are many signs of weak and shaky personality, such as exaggeratedly praising others, or as a ratio Actions I did to other people, or embodied it in phrases such as: "If it were not for me I would not have been", or "This is not intelligence from me but rather from so-and-so ...". Likewise, there is a lot of inference with other people's words, or allowing someone to use some abusive words against your right, such as saying: stupid, or fat, etc.
Also showing some movement disorders such as constantly moving hands, hitting the table while talking, or raising eyebrows, are indications of a weak personality.
SeeGod’s love makes life more beautiful “Thoughts on God’s Love for His Worshipers”
God’s love makes life more beautiful “Thoughts on God’s Love for His Worshipers”
Tips to help me in self-development
What does it mean to establish yourself?
How to develop oneself
A person has to be in constant movement and development, to help himself make decisions, and not to say: There is no time for a change in my life.
Self-confidence is one of the most important aspects of the personality that the individual must stand with and work to develop because a person who lacks confidence in himself will not be able to provide any achievement and his presence will be meaningless.
It is you who make the impossibility exist and make it surround you. If you decide, think, plan and do indeed, there will be no impossible.
We have to realize that each of us has his own self-perception about everything around him, and not necessarily agree with others on our own perception. The self-concept is acquired, it comes from the mother and father, then from school, friends and the media, and since it is acquired, we can change it. The self-concept is also dynamic in the sense that it can change and evolve but in its own sense.
Do not blame yourself but calculate it and learn from your mistakes, and try to develop the positive aspects of your personality, and correct the negative aspects, or get rid of them, and this is known as the self-ideal, and the self-ideal includes five basic pillars, namely:
Spiritual Part: To have a spiritual ideal, you know exactly what you want.
The healthy part: You know what you want, what your problem is, and you know your health.
The personal part: You know your psychological appreciation and you know how it is done.
The professional part: You know what field you will achieve success.
Physical part: You know where you want to get yourself. You have to stay away from three things: criticism, blame, and comparison, as they all feel negative energy and frustration.
It is not permissible to judge those around you with failure, strength or weakness through only the external appearance.
A person must accept himself as it is, and love himself as it is, and this is known as self-esteem, for self-esteem is your appreciation of yourself and your sense of contentment with it.
You have to realize that not accepting oneself leads one to two things:
- Negative behaviors
- Weak personality and social fear.
- Focusing on your goals gives you achievement and mental energy, and the more flexible you are, avoid negative feelings.
- There is something in the body called the physiology of the body, so we find a person who is sure of himself laughing that differs from others, as well as his internal thinking also differs, so we have to start working on changing the physiology of our body, because if the body changes then the thinking will change, and if the thinking changes then the body will change, It means that changing one of them will affect the other automatically.
- It is important to build a strong and confident personality, that a person thinks first of his life, then begins changing a small part of it to go to a place he wants to be.
Self-development and self-confidence
- Self-confidence is one of the most important pillars of self-development and development. So we all have to trust ourselves before we trust others, so we have to work to develop this trait that distinguishes us from others, and self-confidence is one of the things gained in life, and not born with man, so each person can develop himself and increase his confidence in himself.
Here are some factors that increase your confidence:
When we set and implement a specific goal, this will increase our confidence in ourselves, whatever these goals, whether on a personal or professional level.
Accept responsibility, this makes you feel important, and defeat fear every time you see you and use the work to address your fear and gain more confidence.
Talk yourself positively, start your day with a smile and optimism, and talk to yourself. Speaking is vitamin building confidence.
Try to participate in discussions, and take care to educate yourself by reading in all areas, the more you engage in more discussions, the more you trust yourself.
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